-sigh-

"forgive and forget"
the phrase we always hear, but the hardest to do. forgiving is hard enough and to forget, it's impossible. whatever it is, everything will have some kind of imprint in your heart. for it to be able to need your forgiveness, it must have done something unforgivable. for it to need you to forget to move on, it must have impacted you very much.

i don't think it's possible for people to entirely forget anything, nor forgive.

letting go the little things is fine. but as time goes by, the little things add up to something big and that's when it's the hardest for you to forgive or even forget.

i wish people understand how much their actions impacts another.

not everyone is capable...

not everyone is able to withstand...

not everyone will be like that person...

is it not easier for the committed to change than for the victim to forget?

"let go and move on"...
it's easy to move on, but not let go. it is easy to believe you have forgotten, you have already let go of the past, you have forgiven, you have moved on...but you haven't. it's easy to deceive yourself than to actually do...

D:

(c) loish-Glow